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Oct. 23, 2024

Battling and Overcoming Internalized Homophobia, Compulsory Heterosexuality, and Cognitive Dissonance Oh My! (with Anne-Marie Zanzal)

Anne-Marie Zanzal, a coming out coach and former chaplain, shares her profound journey of self-discovery and acceptance after coming out later in life. She discusses the complexities of navigating her sexuality while being married and raising children, emphasizing the importance of community and support for those in similar situations. Anne-Marie highlights the concepts of cognitive dissonance, internalized homophobia, and compulsory heterosexuality, shedding light on the challenges many face wh...
18
Aug. 7, 2024

The Soft Launch: Sarah Interviews Her Girlfriend, Britt

💡 Guest bio
Britt went through a period of self-discovery and came out to her family after getting divorced in 2012. She was nervous but had a supportive conversation with her parents and sister, who were all understanding and accepting. Her dad even lightened the mood with a joke, showing his support. Britt is grateful for the positive experience and the acceptance of her family.
ℹ️ Introduction
Welcome to another episode of Lesbi-Honest! In this episode, Sarah St John invites her girlfriend, B...
17
July 5, 2024

Second Chance Romance: Late-Life Lesbian Love (with Aime and Lisa)

Episode Summary
How would you feel if you discovered your true sexuality after years of marriage and starting a family? Join us as we explore the remarkable stories of Aime and Lisa, two brave women who came to terms with their lesbian identities in their 30s. They share their deeply personal journeys of self-discovery, reflecting on the societal pressures and personal expectations that initially concealed their true selves. Through their candid conversations, Aime recounts her apathy towards me...
16
June 20, 2024

All About Lesbian Sex: Pleasure, Consent, Orgasms, Toys, Sexual Health & Hygiene (with Cherish Amber)

About the Episode and Guest
Cherish Amber, a seasoned queer sex, intimacy, and relationship coach, takes us on an extraordinary journey of self-discovery and acceptance. From identifying as bisexual at 15 to embracing her identity as a lesbian, Cherish shares the challenges and triumphs that have shaped her path. She offers poignant insights into the emotional and sexual differences between relationships with men and women, underscoring the authenticity and freedom she finds in her queer relatio...
15
April 29, 2024

Come Out When the Joy and Freedom of Being Out Supersedes the Pain and Fear of Living in the Closet (with Suzette Mullen)

💡 Host bio
Sarah St John is a woman who faced a major crossroads in her life after being married for 18 years and getting divorced. Despite not having children, she had to navigate the difficult transition from a comfortable and seemingly problem-free marriage to being on her own. Throughout her marriage, she had enjoyed the financial stability and companionship that came with being married, but now she is forging a new path for herself. Her experience has given her a unique perspective on the c...
14
March 20, 2024

No, The LGBTQIA+ Community Isn’t Going to Burn in Hell For Eternity (or at all, for that matter)(with Susan Cottrell)

💡 Speaker bios
Susan Cottrell and her husband were deeply involved in the evangelical church for 20 years, finding a sense of community and family within it. However, their perspective changed when two of their five children came out as queer. This prompted a re-examination of their beliefs, as one of their children expressed that they had tried to resist their identity but ultimately realized they could not deny who they were. This experience led Susan to become an advocate for the LGBTQ+ commu...
13
Feb. 23, 2024

Combating Misinformation and Anti-LGBTQIA Fear in Religious Communities (with Rev. Brandan Robertson)

💡 Guest bio
Rev. Brandan Robertson's journey to becoming a pastor began at the age of 12, when he had a conversion experience at a Baptist church in Maryland. Despite growing up in a non-religious household, he felt a distinct calling to pursue a career in the ministry. Now, at the age of 32, he has dedicated himself to fulfilling that calling and is on the path to becoming a pastor.
ℹ️ Introduction
Welcome to the Lesbi-Honest podcast, where we talk openly and candidly about the experiences of l...
11
Oct. 25, 2023

Surviving the “Ex-Gay” Conversion Therapy Cult (aka Reparative Therapy)(with Lacy Jones)

ℹ️ Introduction
Welcome to another captivating episode of Lesbi-Honest! I'm your host, Sarah St John, and today we have a very special guest joining us. Please give a warm welcome to Lacy Jones, a talented musician, former ministry leader, and an advocate for LGBTQ+ rights. Lacy's journey is one filled with personal struggles, navigating religious institutions, and ultimately finding her true authentic self. In this episode, Lacy opens up about her experiences in ministry, the challenges she fac...
10
Sept. 27, 2023

How to Know When to Come Out, Who to Come Out to First, and How to Come Out (with Candice Czubernat)

💡 Guest bio
Candice's story is one of self-discovery and resilience. Growing up in a Christian environment, she grappled with her own identity and struggled with depression and anxiety. It wasn't until she reached college that she realized she was gay, a realization that completely caught her off guard. This revelation propelled her to want to help others in similar situations, leading her to pursue a career as a therapist. Drawing upon her own experiences, Candice is determined to provide suppo...
9
Sept. 1, 2023

What it Was Like to Come Out as Lesbian in the Christian Music Industry (with Jennifer Knapp)

ℹ️ Introduction
Welcome to "Lesbi-Honest," the podcast where we dive deep into the stories and experiences of LGBTQ+ individuals and explore the intersection of their identities with faith, love, and society. In today's episode, we have a very special guest, Jennifer Knapp, a talented musician who has experienced both the highs and lows of the Christian music industry. Jennifer will share with us the challenges she faced after coming out and the impact it had on her career and other LGBTQ+ artis...
8
Aug. 19, 2023

From Initially Identifying as Bisexual to Realizing You're Actually a Lesbian (with Shohreh Davoodi)

Bio
As an unapologetically queer writer and creator, Shohreh Davoodi is especially skilled at making thoughtful connections, explaining difficult concepts clearly and concisely, and handling tough topics with warmth and humor. Driven by a passion for equal rights and representation for LGBTQIA+ folks and people of color, her work supports and celebrates the queer and BIPOC communities of which she's a proud member. She's currently working on her first novel.
ℹ️ Introduction
Welcome back to anoth...
7
Aug. 14, 2023

The S.T.A.R.S. Framework for Coming Out as a Later-in-Life Lesbian (with Kari DeWitt)

💡 Guest bio
Kari comes from a conservative background, with her father being a Baptist preacher and a long family history of preachers. She has been married three times and has five children, constantly questioning if the problem lies within her. At the age of 39, a family tragedy shook her and made her reevaluate her life. Feeling stuck and unhappy, she asked for a divorce in 2016 and started afresh. It was during this time that she realized she was not straight, which explained the troubles in...
6
July 28, 2023

How a Proper Exegesis of The "Clobber Passages" in Scripture Guided This Theology Student to an Affirming View of Her Sexuality and Her Work With The Reformation Project (with Katherine Johnson)

💡 Guest bio
Katherine Johnson earned her B.A. in Christian Ministries from Spring Arbor University and has over 20 years of ministry experience in a wide variety of fields, both in churches and parachurch organizations. She has also earned an M.A. in Biblical and Theological Studies from Western Seminary and a Th.M. from Columbia Theological Seminary with a focus on Hebrew and Old Testament exegesis.
Katherine is passionate about helping people to encounter Scripture in ways that foster a life-g...
5
July 24, 2023

The Journey of a Once Celibate Christian Lesbian (Side B) to an Affirming and Married Christian Lesbian (Side A) (with Sally Gary)

💡 Speaker bio
Sally grew up in Wichita Falls, Texas, in a devout Christian family. She was raised in a Church of Christ congregation and was taught from a young age that her church community was like family to her. However, there were also difficulties in her home due to her father's past and his struggles with anger. Despite these challenges, Sally's mother emphasized the importance of prioritizing God in their lives.
As Sally grew older, she realized that she was different but could not identi...
4
July 14, 2023

Fashionably Late: Married with Kids and Coming out at 40 as a Non-Binary, Late-Life Lesbian (with Kirby from TikTok)

🌈🎙️ Today, we have an incredible guest, Kirby, who shared their journey as a non-binary, late-life lesbian. 🌟💕
🔀 Kirby's story started with their exploration of gender identity and expression as non-binary.
🌈 They built a strong community in the LGBTQ+ space on TikTok, where they discovered their true identity as a lesbian. 🌺🌈
💔 Kirby also opened up about their previous marriage to a man and the challenges of coming out to their partner, Tommy. But their bond remains solid as co-pilots in life, ...
3
July 7, 2023

Reconciling Sexual Identity and Christian Faith: A Journey from Self-Dismissal to Affirmative Acceptance (with Marisa)

ℹ️ Introduction
On this episode of Lesbi-Honest, our guest Marisa shares her personal journey of grappling with her sexuality and faith. Raised in a mixed religious household, Marisa had a strong foundation in faith but began experiencing a sense of difference from an early age. She struggled with her identity and the conflict between her faith and being gay, initially dismissing Christians. However, through reading books and connecting with a supportive church community, Marisa began questionin...
2
July 1, 2023

Coming Out, Moving On: A Late Life Lesbian's Journey of Processing The Normal Feelings of Guilt and Grief During a Divorce (with Emily Bettdur)

💡 Guest bio
Emily Bettdur's story begins with her conservative Catholic upbringing that provided little exposure to homosexuality. Despite this, she found herself frequently commenting on attractive women while dating her ex-husband. It was her husband who eventually confronted her about her potential attraction to women, leading Emily to question her own feelings. Over time, she realized that she was indeed attracted to women. However, she struggled with societal expectations and the idea of fo...
1
June 30, 2023

My Personal Story of Self-Discovery and Divorce at Age 40

❇️ Key topics and bullets
- Opening Segment: Expressing Hope for Maintaining Friendship Despite Changing Circumstances

Emphasizing the importance of friendship even after major life changes
Sharing personal experiences and perspectives on maintaining connections

- Seeking Solace and Support from Local LGBTQ+ Groups

Exploring the importance of community in times of personal growth and change
Specific focus on finding LGBTQ+ groups that cater to gay Christians

- Personal Journey: Coming to Ter...
June 2, 2023

Trailer for Lesbi-Honest: Candid Convos with Later-in-Life Lesbians with Sarah St John

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